“Your pleasure is my highest priority.”

“Your pleasure is my highest priority.”

Um, yes, please.

Seriously, though.

I like to say that a successful relationship is two people getting far more from the relationship than they put in.

This reminds me of the other part of that.

That a successful relationship is two people giving everything they have to make the other person feel happy and loved and appreciated and…well, all the good things.

And by “everything they have,” I mean within reason (or slightly beyond reason, if I’m to be honest, because I really don’t feel like most people’s reasonable is much to get excited about).

Like, we all still need to live life, and have down time and work and run errands and whatever.

But we also need to make the people we love a priority.

And put their need to feel loved and desired and safe and whatever above less important things like our TV show or the book we can set aside or the goal round we can play later or whatever.

So, when I meet someone who makes my pleasure a priority, while also enjoying when I make their pleasure a priority, I know we’ve got the potential to build something duckbills amazing.

So, yeah.

More Posts

Mixed Signals in Dating

Not because it is a “No.” I mean, it might be (quite likely), but I’m not going to pretend to read someone else’s mind. Because

Black and white image of a young person hiding behind their hands.

Ever Wanted To Be Less Shy?

In my view, shyness is like a weak “outgoing” muscle. The only way to fix it is to work it out, taking it past it’s

The old ways of BDSMK…

I just had a conversation with a friend. He said: Why do newer people in kink think older ways in BDSM are all bad? I

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Where Does The Kink Go?

It’s a common happening. KinkyHurtyFucker meets FreakyPainWonder and they REALLY hit it off. They play like tyrannosaurus-fucking-fireworks and everyone sees and feeds off their energy.

Read More »

Personality Vs. Role

This writing is based on a conversation which got me thinking. Someone asked me: What difference do you make between dominant personalities and domineering? I

Read More »
X