
Using Sex As A Weapon
It’s a fucking insidious evil thing. And it’s so easy. And sometimes not even a conscious habit. Worse, it’s often hard to tell when it’s


It’s a fucking insidious evil thing. And it’s so easy. And sometimes not even a conscious habit. Worse, it’s often hard to tell when it’s

In my recent writing about standards, someone mentioned that while they think standards are good, that they can be taken too far, so that you

I saw this on a post on FB. It generated some really strong opinions, and I thought it would be interesting to post this here

That is a big fat lie. And it’s an easy lie to accept, to internalize, and to use to beat ourselves and others over the

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Let me say first that there is no one right way to do this. For some,

Polyamory and dating more people does not automatically make you better at it. If so, serial monogamists would grow in each relationship, ultimately ending up

That’s often the issue that comes up when discussing monogamy or nonmonogamy. “I want to be the one they choose.” And to me, it’s where
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