When The Lashes Fall Inwards
Last September, I wrote about the languages of survival and trust, and @Roundfoot wrote an amazing post on what happens when partners take our words or our upset,
Last September, I wrote about the languages of survival and trust, and @Roundfoot wrote an amazing post on what happens when partners take our words or our upset,
Join any ENM or poly group on FB, and within the first five posts, probably four will have references to boundaries in the post or
This old thing has been going around online for a while. I saw it again on Facebook today, and read it again, and for some
I’m kind of weird. I don’t like masturbation. It’s not my jam. I’ve tried it. A lot of different ways. Dozens of toys, situations, techniques,
“No, Sandra, what I used to be was a pushover with crappy boundaries, and I let you walk all over me, and you loved that
“Do what feels right!” Yes, but… Doing what feels right can be good, when you are properly calibrated. But are you? Probably not, at least
Not saying relationships—the right relationships—can’t heal you. They absolutely can. In fact, they can do more for you than therapy in some cases. Some. Maybe
I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone
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