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Chat Transcript: ZIP
Presentation Deck: PPT
Hardy’s Presentation: 0:00 to 40:00
PLUS Membership information: 40:00 to 43:30
Q&A: 43:40 to 1:20:40
This month’s topic: Setting Boundaries with Yourself in a Kinky World
Understanding your boundaries, especially when you’re stuck sheltering in place with other people or interacting through video conferencing, deciding when and how to interact with someone setting boundaries.
Links from the show:
https://twitter.com/DatingKinky
https://twitter.com/castawaySOS
https://datingkinky.com/events/
Attendee Questions:
1) Stormy: for people who grew up w/o boundaries, is there a way to learn what boundaries they “should” have realistically or are they pretty much SOL?
2) Stormy: what about people who use real power over others to violate boundaries? (real power = access to needed things, safety, resources…not just ability to inspire a feeling)
3) Ellia: how can submissives safeguard their boundaries while honoring their power exchange? This can be difficult sometimes, especially when the nature of someone is to put another first.
4) Learning: would you consider it “easily offended” if a coworker jokes someone is mentally ill?
5) Stormy: How do you respond when someone accuses you of crossing a boundary that is really a local/cultural norm or unspoken expectation?
6) Nikki: Any advice for people (usually fems) that are conditioned and expected to be more “polite” around setting boundaries?
7) Nikki: “how to set boundaries around entitlement?” perhaps is the question
8) Janet M.: What’s the best way to handle it when you are the one who has accidentally overstepped someone else’s boundary?
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Every SECOND Monday. Next episode: June 8th at 8PM EST.
Presenter Name: Hardy Brooklyn
Hardy Brooklyn has said that his primary fetish is sensation, and he loves to push people’s boundaries in safe and fun ways. He’s a passionate lifestyle enthusiast.
He coaches individuals, whether gay or straight, poly-amorous or monogamous, or still trying to figure it all out—in life or in business. His life mission is to be the conduit connecting people to being who they truly are and want to be. Being confident in who you are is the gateway to a great life and great relationships!
Hardy is a fun-loving, successful serial entrepreneur who has bootstrapped several of my own businesses while still finding plenty of time for family, travel, live music and nightlife. Hardy believes in the vital importance of human creativity, whether it’s music, visual art, performance, invention—or something we haven’t even heard of yet!
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