One of the things I’ve been focused on with Dating Kinky is creating an atmosphere of  kink, sex, and body positivity.

In the original site, I offered the following options for “body type” on profiles:

• Average
• Petite
• Slim
• Athletic
• Curvy
• A Little Extra
• Muscular
• BBW / BHM

In the new site, I’ve separated (by request):

• BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
• BHM – Big Handsome Man

As I’m working on these today, and preparing to migrate the old site data over to the new site, I was thinking about how we’ll let all the men know that we now have an option for them, when I was stopped in my (thinking) tracks.

This is a very binary view, no matter how body positive it is.

So, what to put in for the non-binaries?

• BGP – Big Gorgeous Person?
• FSP – Fluffy Sexy Person?
• MFTL – More For The Lovin’?

What?

I’ll admit I’m pretty much lost in this one, and I’m asking YOU, the ones who might use a label like this, what you might want to see here.