One of the things I’ve been focused on with Dating Kinky is creating an atmosphere of kink, sex, and body positivity.
In the original site, I offered the following options for “body type” on profiles:
- Average
- Petite
- Slim
- Athletic
- Curvy
- A Little Extra
- Muscular
- BBW / BHM
In the new site, I’ve separated (by request):
- BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
- BHM – Big Handsome Man
As I’m working on these today, and preparing to migrate the old site data over to the new site, I was thinking about how we’ll let all the men know that we now have an option for them, when I was stopped in my (thinking) tracks.
This is a very binary view, no matter how body positive it is.
So, what to put in for the non-binaries?
- BGP – Big Gorgeous Person?
- FSP – Fluffy Sexy Person?
- MFTL – More For The Lovin’?
What?
I’ll admit I’m pretty much lost in this one, and I’m asking YOU, the ones who might use a label like this, what you might want to see here.
