Look 👀 at your kinky life. Your relationships, your skills, how you feel.
Are you proud of where you are?
Has your hard work (and sometimes luck) paid off for you?
What areas are not quite there yet?
Be honest with yourself. And then, ask yourself, “What would it take to make me strong in those areas?”
And then do it.
And keep doing it.
Until you’re proud.
Ask the Japanese. オルガスムス Who say that orgasming is like dying and going to heaven. Or the French, who call orgasm le petit mort, or
On December 10, 2021, I presented the topic ‘Ouch! That STILL Hurts! Navigating trauma in and out of kink.’ for Dating Kinky’s 12 Days of
Worry is paralyzing. It gets in the way. It prevents us from being in-the-moment and really living our lives. Because worrying is really letting the
In my class on protocol, I talk about a conflict resolution protocol I have in place in my relationships.
It’s based on a joke I make about communication:
“I command you to stop being upset!”
And I’ll be right. You see, I read this piece a while back: Please, not the C word Where the author says that if they
It had never occurred to me to ever not accept someone as they wanted to be accepted. At least, assuming that it wasn’t something like
When we don’t follow our own rules, we give ourselves pain to get us back on track. Sometimes we blame that pain on others. Even
Someone in one of the poly groups I participate in on Facebook posted a link to an article: 5 Signs That He’s Just Not That
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