Are you proud?

Are you proud?

Look 👀 at your kinky life. Your relationships, your skills, how you feel.

Are you proud of where you are?

Has your hard work (and sometimes luck) paid off for you?

What areas are not quite there yet?

Be honest with yourself. And then, ask yourself, “What would it take to make me strong in those areas?”

And then do it.

And keep doing it.

Until you’re proud.

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