Look 👀 at your kinky life. Your relationships, your skills, how you feel.
Are you proud of where you are?
Has your hard work (and sometimes luck) paid off for you?
What areas are not quite there yet?
Be honest with yourself. And then, ask yourself, “What would it take to make me strong in those areas?”
And then do it.
And keep doing it.
Until you’re proud.
I’ll scream it until I’m blue in the face 😱: You have to be able to trust yourself.To show up for yourself.To listen to yourself.
“I just don’t even know where to start!” I can’t tell you how many times people have said that to me in relation to kink
I say no. But, really, who the fuck am I? I’m someone who does my research and can tell you that scientists also say no.
Nearly three decades ago, I ran across this weird book in the discount section of a Borders Books that was all about bio-hacks before the
That is a big fat lie. And it’s an easy lie to accept, to internalize, and to use to beat ourselves and others over the
Pardon me while I rant a bit here. And this is not directed at any one person, more at a situation and the created misunderstandings.
In September of 2020, Meg-John Barker presented the topic Consensual Relationships for Dating Kinky’s weekend event, ‘More Than Yes or No,’ and I was the
Whatever you call me will, in part, determine how I react to you. This is important to me. I have a macro on my computer
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