What makes a dominant decidedly un-dominant?
Desperation.
It’s not just dominants that often stink of it. It’s any one, of any role, any sexual orientation, or any gender who thinks that sex or a relationship is something they get for doing or saying just the right things, in the right sequence.
It’s not.
It’s not about doing.
It’s about being.
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Which you either know or you don’t. And don’t say, “I know,” and then keep giving yourself away. That’s a fib. You SAY you know,
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