What makes a dominant decidedly un-dominant?
Desperation.
It’s not just dominants that often stink of it. It’s any one, of any role, any sexual orientation, or any gender who thinks that sex or a relationship is something they get for doing or saying just the right things, in the right sequence.
It’s not.
It’s not about doing.
It’s about being.
I’ve been writing about selfishness for a long time. I’m a damned selfish person. I know this about myself. I wrote “I’m a Selfish Shit”
A few months back, I wrote You’re Making Dominance HARDER For Yourself, You Know…, and I asserted in that piece that dominance is natural and it’s
And part of refusing to be judged is knowing you are not judging. Hmmm. That sounds awkward, but what I’m trying to say is that
It’s one of the first pieces of advice I give people new to the world of kink. Make friends. Don’t just come into kink like
A comment yesterday suggested that ‘People who do ____ are hurting.’ Which is often true. Not always. Sometimes they are just assholes. Sometimes they are
I get it. I’ve been through some shit. You might have been through more. Or less. But that doesn’t matter, really. because, as they say,
I’ve always thought Meatloaf had it backwards. “I want you. I love you, but there ain’t no way I’m ever going to need you…” THAT’S
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