What makes a dominant decidedly un-dominant?
Desperation.
It’s not just dominants that often stink of it. It’s any one, of any role, any sexual orientation, or any gender who thinks that sex or a relationship is something they get for doing or saying just the right things, in the right sequence.
It’s not.
It’s not about doing.
It’s about being.
Saturday evening in my Alpha Submissive Class for The Academy in Georgetown, SC, I brought up the Hierarchy of Needs as an illustrative point on
Let me be clear, I’ve agreed with this in my past. Hell, I’ve even said it, smugly, and defended it. But the last few years,
True. BUT…which this is true, it misses the important stuff. Boundaries are not as much for everyone else as for YOU. Because when you realize
I grew up with swinksters (70s and 80s), and the groups of friends they had were incredibly varied in gender, race, age (college towns), and
When people talk to me about dominance and “controlling others,” I say I’m not that kind of dominant. I don’t control others. I don’t want
The word of the week is “slip”. To participate, create a 15-word story with slip, slips, slipped, or slipping. I can’t wait to see your
This has been a casual and not-so-casual study of mine for years. In fact, I fully credit having a hypnotic mindgasm for unlocking my potential
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! This is a new series on red flags to watch out for when meeting and dating
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