And part of refusing to be judged is knowing you are not judging.
Hmmm. That sounds awkward, but what I’m trying to say is that if you are silently judging everyone else, then you will feel, deep inside, that it’s OK to judge, and you’ll accept their judgment of you more readily.
So, don’t judge.
Or, at least be aware of your judging, and really pay attention to what you judge and why.
Because what you judge will affect what you are willing to be judged on, yourself.
Most movies, like most relationships, follow general patterns. And some of those movies are GREAT movies. And some of those relationships are GREAT relationships. I
A man I’ve counseled over the years in a masculine dominance forum that I volunteer (as a dominant woman’s perspective) for, posted this incredibly insightful
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In my writing yesterday, @Innermind (on FetLife) said: It’s always fascinating when someone writes about how awesome their lover is when they are together and just trash them
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No, don’t “Just trust your feelings,” that’s a most excellent way to fuck everything up. But it’s a catchy tune, for sure. On yesterday’s writing,
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