And part of refusing to be judged is knowing you are not judging.
Hmmm. That sounds awkward, but what I’m trying to say is that if you are silently judging everyone else, then you will feel, deep inside, that it’s OK to judge, and you’ll accept their judgment of you more readily.
So, don’t judge.
Or, at least be aware of your judging, and really pay attention to what you judge and why.
Because what you judge will affect what you are willing to be judged on, yourself.
Someone on my YouTube channel a couple of weeks ago asked me two questions. Both have been used in conversation with me more than once,
On FetLife, I have chosen the role of “kinkster” as my very own, despite that I live my life as a dominant woman. The reason
YOU: Hi there. You are lovely. I’d really like to get to know you better. ME: Thanks, I’m flattered. However, your profile states that you
I’ve heard it said that the dominant in any relationship is the one who cares the least. I think this is poppycock. As a dominant,
I’m in negotiations for a pretty amazing (I hope) play session at a getaway in March. We’ve started early, and we’ve been exploring ideas and
Anyone who has ever missed someone knows the feeling, like a part of themselves are gone. It’s nothing concrete, like an arm or a leg,
Dating is about finding a good long term partner, it’s true. However, it is not the long-term relationship itself. It’s even got it’s own word:
And this is coming from someone who teaches communication classes. So, what’s the most important thing in a relationship? Appreciating your partner. Truly. Deeply. Wonderfully.
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