And part of refusing to be judged is knowing you are not judging.
Hmmm. That sounds awkward, but what I’m trying to say is that if you are silently judging everyone else, then you will feel, deep inside, that it’s OK to judge, and you’ll accept their judgment of you more readily.
So, don’t judge.
Or, at least be aware of your judging, and really pay attention to what you judge and why.
Because what you judge will affect what you are willing to be judged on, yourself.
I’ll be honest. I’m not very scary. I’m kind of like that meme of the teeniest, tiniest bat looking like a fluffy black marshmallow saying
Before I had a lot of friends, I had fewer than five friends, four in different cities. And none were as close as I have
On a FetLife group about dating on OKC, the question was asked: Who messages first? According to a new study done by the OKCupid team,
In my mentoring piece a few days back, a conversation on FetLife went THERE. To the “can sex be traded for mentoring” place. And I,
This Thought Catalog article on faithfulness was brought to my attention recently, and I read it with both agreement and a few feelings of “ick.”
“What is, ‘Hi, can we be friends?’”“What is, ‘Hi, could I be your slave?’”“What is, ‘Hello, do you need someone to worship you?’”“What is, ‘I
I also don’t NOT do newbies. I was having a conversation with one of my favorite muses, and they said: I liked TheFerrett’s writing on
It’s a common happening. KinkyHurtyFucker meets FreakyPainWonder and they REALLY hit it off. They play like tyrannosaurus-fucking-fireworks and everyone sees and feeds off their energy.
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