“Time-Served” In The Lifestyle Matters Less Than You Might Think

“Time-Served” In The Lifestyle Matters Less Than You Might Think

Because we all know someone who’s been “in the scene” for 20 years and claims to have 20 years of experience, but they really have one year repeated 20 times.

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Is Love Learned Or Innate?

“You have to love yourself before you can love others.” “The truth is, you cannot love yourself unless you have been loved and are loved.

YES. It’s a powerful word.

I’ve been writing a lot about boundaries lately. In fact, I’m going to finish my series on the six types of boundaries tomorrow. And when

Relationships Aren’t Therapy

Not saying relationships—the right relationships—can’t heal you. They absolutely can. In fact, they can do more for you than therapy in some cases. Some. Maybe

BDSM Vs. Abuse

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! This is a question that comes up a lot. In my general Kinky Q&A classes, online

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BDSM Hierarchy of Needs

The Needs Hierarchy

So, in PE (Power Exchange) relationships, we all have needs. Knowing what those are and understanding how to get those met is critical. I’ve read

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