- AJudgyMan† joined the group FetLife Announcements. about 1 year ago
† Name changed to protect whatever. You’ll see.
- AJudgyMan changed his location to Raleigh, North Carolina, United States. 8 months ago
- AJudgyMan changed his gender to male. 8 months ago
- AJudgyMan changed his role to Sensualist. 8 months ago
- AJudgyMan changed his sexual orientation to homoflexible. 8 months ago
- AJudgyMan updated the about section on his profile. 8 months ago
“Just looking to see whats out there and who I vibe with.
Anonymity is imperative”
- AJudgyMan changed his sexual orientation to heteroflexible. 7 months ago
THEN, he contacted me.
With no photo, no friends, no… well, you’ll see.
It was pretty banal for a few exchanges. Nothing to write home about, then, he asked:
“So, do you think 2 self proclaimed Dominants can get along?”
I replied:
I have a lot of dominant friends.
I have no desire to make everything into combat.
“Good cause neither do I, actually. theres fun teasing and play and theres some girls that hold a penis envy gotta prove something.
In the end, Im just looking for cool people, that know how to draw the line between the facade of all this kinky play. I have no need to want to control a woman out of the bedroom – but I do love dominant play in the bedroom, and sometimes out. But theres something definitely wrong with a person that wants to be controlled by another person out of the kinky play. So, I have nothing to say to a slave. theyre no fun – I need alittle resistence to keep things playful.”
I replied:
I’m sorry. You just said something that I find incredibly judgmental. Perhaps you could clarify:
“But theres something definitely wrong with a person that wants to be controlled by another person out of the kinky play.”
“The line gets crossed, for me, when you have someone that either wants to have their life, not just their kinky fun, completely controlled by another or they have some deep seeded need to control another’s life. 24/7 Doms, Slaves are something I understand but do not respect.
In the bedroom, thats fun, but thats where you separate the illusion of power this lifestyle allows and step into a twisted unhealthy psychological need that stems from some mental issues.
I dare you to try to argue that”
I replied:
I have no desire to argue it.
I am dominant inside the bedroom and out. My Pet and others look to me for more than sexual role play, and I enjoy that role.
I wish you the best of luck in everything you do.
“Funny cause a true dominant doesnt walk away like that – but anyone on here can play one.
Enjoy your writing
And if I offended you by the last “judgemental” remarks – youre probably exactly like the mentally ill people that take this lifestyle way too seriously, because they need to – in which case I feel sorry for you.”
Enjoy that feeling of superiority, oh creepy one. I’m too busy enjoying my amazing life to give a flying fuck.
smiles
