Offer A Hug: Be The Change You Want To See In The World

This morning as I was poking around on my twitter, I stumbled across this tweet thread:

This is a thing. I personally grew up with a very physically affectionate mother, and touch is natural to me.

As natural as breathing.

When I meet people, I always offer a hug, instead of a handshake or basic greeting. Even in business.

Let me clear: I don’t dive in for the embrace. I give them the OPTION.

90%+ take it.

Now, as a woman, I do have an advantage of not seeming creepy to most. However, I know men who offer a hug, too.

“I’m a hugger. Do you prefer hugs or another greeting?”

Of course, not ever expecting to sexualize it helps.

BE THE CHANGE.

YMMV. Perhaps start small.

Friends.

“I’m on a mission to hug more and spread joy. You with me?”

I know it will not work for everyone with every person. When it does, though, we all benefit.

It’s a fucking insidious evil thing. And it’s so easy. And sometimes not even a conscious habit. Worse, it’s often hard to tell when it’s

Because, let’s face, no one on the internet (even on #DatingSites) cares about you until you give them a reason. And no matter how wonderful

(Inspired by @_do_ on FetLife) You are. Some people will tell you that you’re not and you need to change to be worthy. I disagree

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