I want to have you before me for years
And pick you apart and put you back together
And know what makes you tick
And makes you laugh and giggle and grow angry and hurt
And then I want to use all of that to free you And still own you
But own a more you
A MY you
A you that has never been before.
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I loved this… thank You Nookie
You’re very welcome! *smiles*