Because I Said So!

Because I Said So!

Because I Said So, Volume 1 cover

Do What Works

When it comes to any kind of relationship, kinky or otherwise, what works for one couple (or polycule) may not be what works for another, so I’m a big fan of do what works.

Let me say that again:

Do What Works.

That is one of my main mantras in life as well as in my relationships.

Take what works for you from this book, and leave the rest. Or use it to expand your understanding of what works for others.

But don’t think that I’m telling you what to do. I’m just giving you the information to figure all that out for you and your partner(s).

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