He is my sub, I am his Queen.
I am owned as thoroughly as he. Equally, with different responsibilities and tasks.
Were I to abandon my new scarf by leaving it on a subway, it will no longer be my scarf. Someone else will pick it up, and it will become theirs.
It remains mine only so long as I keep investing myself in it and it’s care.
(Interestingly, the original meaning of “invest” is to clothe yourself with something, to enter into something that you wrap around yourself.)
Or, rather, let me say, “It’s OFTEN a trauma response.” If you don’t ask for what you want and need, only YOU get to say
No, really. It’s true. It’s been mansplained to me. Here are some of things I read this morning in support of the title, and yes,
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To some, this is self-evident advice. To others, it feels anathema. For a great majority, it’s just fucking confusing. Especially in kink. Because, well, we
I spent 34 years of my life being pretty disconnected from the rest of the world. I always felt like an outsider. I could make
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And I was right about my experiences. I’ll explain. Almost exactly three years ago, I wrote Why I Think “Empathy” Is An Often Misused And
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