Learn To Love Anal: Finger Pleasuring To The Inner Gate, Lesson 1

Learn To Love Anal: Finger Pleasuring To The Inner Gate, Lesson 1

Overview

This first lesson is just the beginning. You’re going to start off soft and slow, learning to touch yourself or your partner to gain their trust and activate their anal pleasure.

The steps are simple:

  • Lube a single finger. Keep it lubed, to avoid drag.
  • Tease and stroke softly around the outside of the anus, along the external sphincter.
  • As the sphincter relaxes, allow a fingertip to gently get sucked in.
  • Don’t rush. Let it slide in naturally. A tiny bit at a time as the asshole relaxes.
  • If the sphincter tightens, let your finger slide easily back out. There is no need to rush or force anything.
  • Work to having a full finger tip inside (not even an inch!), and sliding in and out, allowing the sphincter or your receiver to set the pace.
  • Slide the finger around the edge of the sphincter while still inserted, awakening the nerve endings there.
  • Keep sliding the finger in until you reach the inner sphincter, rubbing gently.
  • Enjoy!
  • Let the finger slowly slide out, still teasing and sliding as it goes.
  • Stroke the outside of the anus in farewell.
  • Take a moment to breathe deeply and remain relaxed as the pleasure fades away.

A Few Notes:

If you’ve played anally before, this will seem VERY basic for you.

I get it.

You may be already raring to get on with the big butt stuff.

Bear with me for a moment, though. There is a method to my madness. You see, while many people eventually experience anal, very few learn to unlock all the pleasure it has to offer.

This is what I’m building with you, step-by-step.

You see, there are A LOT of nerve endings in the anus, and once you wake those up and get them “activated,” for lack of a better term, they will serve you well in many hundreds of hours of play to cum (LOL! I know, bad pun!).

In test runs of this class, I’ve had experienced butt play enthusiasts say they really enjoyed the sensation, and that it opened up some pretty amazing paths to pleasure for them, even though they’d been taking “it” like a champ—some for years!

Of course, it’s up to you.

You can always skip to the lessons that you feel are better suited to your skill level.

I’m not one to tell you how to live your sexy life.

*smiles*

Let’s Discuss!

What questions, if any, do you have about this first lesson, and the steps you’ll be taking?

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