
You don’t need a WHY.
People talk about knowing your why like it’s this deep mystical thing that people MUST HAVE. Like it’s a higher plane of existence or an


People talk about knowing your why like it’s this deep mystical thing that people MUST HAVE. Like it’s a higher plane of existence or an

It’s so, SO easy to see the beautiful photos of kinky rope scenes and happy nonmonogamous relationships, and power exchange couples and forget (or never

Or, rather, let me say, “It’s OFTEN a trauma response.” If you don’t ask for what you want and need, only YOU get to say

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! — Any problem you can’t discuss in your relationship is two problems. Or more. The problem

Overwhelmingly, I hear it from all sorts of people who want a relationship to last, regardless of how happy or fulfilled they or the other

There has been a kerfuffle locally. Someone that hosted some pretty larger parties over the years has been accused of some heinous things. And the

Literally. For me, a lack of passion translates into a physical pain. A deep ache. A weariness. A sort of malaise that keeps my energy

In June of 2021, Shadenfreude presented the topic “Pretty Please: The Basics of Begging Training” for Dating Kinky’s Weekend event, My Power, Your Power. The
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