
Validation: A Human Need
Over this past weekend, as I was in Jacksonville to teach, a writing of mine popped back up for a spate of attention. The Needs


Over this past weekend, as I was in Jacksonville to teach, a writing of mine popped back up for a spate of attention. The Needs

Apparently. I mean, I THOUGHT I had had some really good sex in my life. Like, banging through walls, 200+ orgasms, screaming, getting all the

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! So, in the first week of January, I holed up and wrote. 68 chapters, about 38,000

If only it worked that way, right? Life would be so much easier. But, alas. We need to look for other methods. Luckily, I have

Or, rather, let me say, “It’s OFTEN a trauma response.” If you don’t ask for what you want and need, only YOU get to say

CW: This is a piece specifically about pathologies, NOT consensual play. Yes, there are self-identified roles within kink that use these terms… that is NOT

Keep going. This isn’t going to last. But you will. And I’m cheering you on. And I’m letting you know you’re NOT alone. A lot
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