
The cages we build for ourselves.
Monday night was amazing for me. I went out to a local slosh with 70+ other kinksters. I got to spend time with someone I’ve


Monday night was amazing for me. I went out to a local slosh with 70+ other kinksters. I got to spend time with someone I’ve

Seriously. Don’t. You don’t know me. (Well, you probably don’t. Most people who read my writings don’t know me. Not well enough to trust me.)

Last week, I posted “a day in the life” of me. I talked about waking in the early morning, and the work I do every

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Chat Transcript: ZIPPresentation Deck: PPT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8N_tupPBtWQ On Wednesday, June 17th, Dating Kinky will broadcast the third episode of The Non-Monogamunch, another of our awesome monthly

True. For some people this is 100% true. And it’s a valid way to live and feel and BE. And those people often have a

Last year, I wrote a piece about consent. This morning, I got a comment on FetLife on that piece saying: “…the type of consent you’re
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