
I’m Writing About Anal Porn…
My new book, The Big Book of Ass, has a chapter titled, “Well, they do it in porn, don’t they?” In this chapter, I talk


My new book, The Big Book of Ass, has a chapter titled, “Well, they do it in porn, don’t they?” In this chapter, I talk
In my writing yesterday, @Innermind (on FetLife) said: It’s always fascinating when someone writes about how awesome their lover is when they are together and just trash them

No, really. It’s true. It’s been mansplained to me. Here are some of things I read this morning in support of the title, and yes,


I’m a bit of a weirdo. I know this. But sometimes, it’s more obvious than others. Including in conversations about relationships. Because I do relationships

TL;DR In short, empathy, in my view is a lazy excuse for doing something you think will be right, rather than actually communicating with another

I read an article in the New York Times a year or so ago that suggested that in order to love someone for a long

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Today’s prompt was inspired over 2 years ago, but for whatever reason, I never wrote it.
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