
Experience and fantasy are not the same.
In fact, they are often wildly different. This is true in kink, in nonmonogamy—in anything you might get revved up about. Which, I’m pretty sure


In fact, they are often wildly different. This is true in kink, in nonmonogamy—in anything you might get revved up about. Which, I’m pretty sure

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! In the book I released this month, So, What Is Kinky, Anyway, one of the questions

Worry is paralyzing. It gets in the way. It prevents us from being in-the-moment and really living our lives. Because worrying is really letting the
In D/s, there is nothing more erotic than belonging. In my opinion, belonging is the highest level of emotion, and it translates into the greatest


Today’s post is by @UnrulyNerdGirl on FetLife: http://unrulynerdgirl.com/ When I decided to have guests post this week for me, I had to include UnrulyNerdGirl. Her

CW: Non-consent, etc. — I got a message a while back that I thought could make a fascinating post: There is a gap between behavior

My new book, The Big Book of Ass, has a chapter titled, “Well, they do it in porn, don’t they?” In this chapter, I talk
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