Happy National Just Because Day From Dating Kinky

I am loved. By many. Not loved or even disliked by many as well, but that doesn’t really matter much to me. I am blessed.

Let me be clear, I’ve agreed with this in my past. Hell, I’ve even said it, smugly, and defended it. But the last few years,

In a good relationship, you feel loved, secure, significant…and so many other things. In a GREAT relationship, you’ll have all that AND you will get

Inevitably, on dating sites and apps, I get the question, “So, what are you looking for?” I nearly always want to reply, “Nothing.” Not really

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Someone replied to a post I made in my Women in Charge Facebook group, and said: love is truly wanting what’s best for another with

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Do I like this person? Am I better for spending time with this person? Are they

I’m a fan of lingerie. Not always, but when I’m in the mood, I love the over-the top stuff. I like to say that I

Compare and contrast these two belief systems and reactions… In a message on FetLife, to me: why men are strong because first thing men don’t