
Specific Experiences People (SEP) Versus Wide Experiences People (WEP), And A Call For Experts
Specific Experiences People (SEP) MAY be new to kink. Their experiences may be limited to online research, watching some porn, and/or using a few toys


Specific Experiences People (SEP) MAY be new to kink. Their experiences may be limited to online research, watching some porn, and/or using a few toys

I’ve written about kinky references more than once. References Don’t Work AFTER The Damage Is Done! Let’s Talk About References… There is this thing that

A monthly discussion and gathering place for kinky folk of color, and those who want to support kink for all in their spaces (online and
Note: I’ve updated this post to reflect my focus on nonmonogamy as the umbrella term, rather than using polyamory as a catch-all. Not just because

I was at an event a couple of weekends ago, and I asked a question in a discussion: “What can we do to make consent

“Caretaking is mightily loving, it’s a powerful anti-aphrodisiac.” So says Esther Perel in her TED talk, The secret to desire in a long-term relationship. And

No, I’ve never thought anyone thought my orgasm was their property. It never crossed my mind. Until I read this piece: My Orgasm Is Not Your

Yes, I’m starting out with a gender stereotype, because it’s one I’ve heard over and over and over again. And it’s not true. At least
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