
The Effort IS the Reward (Sometimes)
Before I start, I want to let you know that I’m speaking of an ideal. A perfection, if you will, a nirvana. But it’s one


Before I start, I want to let you know that I’m speaking of an ideal. A perfection, if you will, a nirvana. But it’s one

It’s powerful. That experience. Someone riding the edge of their comfort zone. Feeling it keenly. Fighting with themselves so strongly that they can’t stay still.
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! I love hugs. I’m a hugger from way back. To me, hugs are like mini-cuddle sessions,

“Do something special to re-enforce and celebrate your relationship.” This is the message of Couples Appreciation Month, founded in 2010. Show your partner you appreciate

A few days ago, I wrote about trust, and how my definition of trust in kink and love and community is a different thing than

I saw this meme on social media. It said: “Be a little more you, and a lot less them.” Which I liked, but it feels
When people talk to me about dominance and “controlling others,” I say I’m not that kind of dominant. I don’t control others. I don’t want

CW: mentions rape play Have you ever seen someone put in a gimp outfit or latex suit restrained to a bench and put out for
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