1. The kinkster who pretends to know all the kinky things for any variety of reasons (superiority, authority, power, etc.) but don’t actually know what they are doing.
2. Those who actually believe they know all the kinky things but are completely wrong.
3. People who admit they don’t know all the kinky things, and let that paralyze them because they believe types 1 and 2 are being truthful.
4. Kinksters who are ok admitting they don’t know all the kinky things and just get on with it anyway.
I prefer the last kind.
*smiles*
4 Comments on “The Four Kinds Of Kinkster”
Anything Worth Doing Is Worth Totally Fucking Up • Dating Kinky
August 18, 2018 at 8:38 am[…] night, in Fayetteville, I gave a BDSM Basics talk. And I talked about The Four Kinds Of Kinksters, and I mentioned the third kind of […]
John
August 19, 2018 at 6:44 amI like 4 too, just submit to anything, give full cosent upfront!
John
August 19, 2018 at 6:48 amI want you have full power over me, forced kink, take control
admin
August 19, 2018 at 9:50 amMy personal kink doesn’t involve force, even CNC. My sweet spot is exactly the opposite: Seeing someone CRAZY to do things for me, rather than reluctant. *smiles* ~Nookie