I Am Not A Sadist, But I Can Play One…
I am not a sadist. Not of any sort. Not emotional, not otherwise. I don’t knock it. To me, pathologies are simply aspects of an
I am not a sadist. Not of any sort. Not emotional, not otherwise. I don’t knock it. To me, pathologies are simply aspects of an
As someone who has done customer service and tech support in more ways than most people can even imagine, I am NOT that person. I’m
To some, this is self-evident advice. To others, it feels anathema. For a great majority, it’s just fucking confusing. Especially in kink. Because, well, we
I just recently began noticing this, then realized it’s always happened, but I wasn’t savvy to it. I’ll ask a question, and when someone answers,
Compromise behaviors create environments that require more of the same behaviors. —Weick 1979 Sit with that a minute, and think of compromises you’ve made in
I was a child in the height of the AIDS scare, and it has colored my life since I began exploring sex and sexuality. I’ve
I’ve been asked quite a lot about personal boundaries and how to set them, how to recognize what is a healthy boundary and how to
In a discussion on objectification (specifically of do-me subs asking for objectification right out of the gate with no niceties, no relationship, no real negotiation),
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