What makes a dominant decidedly un-dominant?
Desperation.
It’s not just dominants that often stink of it. It’s any one, of any role, any sexual orientation, or any gender who thinks that sex or a relationship is something they get for doing or saying just the right things, in the right sequence.
It’s not.
It’s not about doing.
It’s about being.
A few years back, someone said this to me. That they loved when I made my ownership and power over them explicit during everyday activities.
Some humans are made to feel that if they show feelings, they are somehow LESS of whatever they should be, like masculine. Others are told
I recently had a conversation with someone online that did not ultimately go positively. They’d asked me a question about my personal experience, and when
Recently someone I’ve been loosely connected with online for half a decade sent me a pretty scathing private comment. And it felt…wrong. Like out of
I can’t argue with that. I mean, I’m all about sex on the regular and having my needs fulfilled, although I don’t personally feel like
So, way, WAYYYYYY back when, in my barely-into-teen-nerdy days, I had a bit of cash to spend. And my birthday was coming up, so I
I have two. I joke about them, because I know when I encounter someone that falls into these two categories, I’ll just melt and go
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