All In Or Nothing

All In Or Nothing

If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine.

Who can give 50% and be happy? Who can get 50% and be happy?

Not I.

Relationships are 100%/100%.

And this is the same for me in nonmonogamy as in anything else. If I’m not willing to explore everything that the relationship could be—whatever that is—I’m not going to even start. That’s not fair to anyone.

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“No” is a complete sentence.

Saying no is simple. Two letters. One syllable. But as simple as it is, it’s often not easy. Difficult. Uncomfortable. Hard. Some of us HATE

Is that a…curling iron burn?

Oh, the good old days of necking when we weren’t supposed to, and that deliciousness, tenth next day realizing that you’ll have to wear a

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Of Course I Lie

Of COURSE I Lie!

I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone

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