If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine.
Who can give 50% and be happy? Who can get 50% and be happy?
Not I.
Relationships are 100%/100%.
And this is the same for me in nonmonogamy as in anything else. If I’m not willing to explore everything that the relationship could be—whatever that is—I’m not going to even start. That’s not fair to anyone.
So, in a lot of writings here on Fet and elsewhere, I constantly see notes about vetting the people you play with and checking references.
In the summer of 2020, I went backpacking with my partner for the first time. And I learned that he doesn’t like making fires. As
Recently I wrote about those people who message others on kinky/dating/other sites, and instead of introducing themselves, start with something a bit more…advanced: “Hi, can
This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Let me ask you a question: Do you know a lightweight? Someone who gets drunk easily?
This holiday started off as a joke, and honestly not a very funny one. It was pretty much a man (comedian Jim Jefferies) complaining that
It’s a fantasy: being forced to succumb to the greater power of a dominant, unable to help yourself, being overpowered… It’s practically spoon fed to
I often talk about dating online as creating profiles that specifically rule out people that you would be incompatible with, or don’t desire to connect
A lot of people say they couldn’t be poly or nonmonogamous because they are jealous. As if jealousy is not allowed in those lifestyles. I’l
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