If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine.
Who can give 50% and be happy? Who can get 50% and be happy?
Not I.
Relationships are 100%/100%.
And this is the same for me in nonmonogamy as in anything else. If I’m not willing to explore everything that the relationship could be—whatever that is—I’m not going to even start. That’s not fair to anyone.
I interact with a lot of new people. They find me and write, and say, “Hey, I’m new to all this kinky stuff.” And I
Someone who I did not know well told me last year that they could tell I loved them. I replied that that statement made me
Boundaries matter. I like to say boundaries are how we tell where we end and others begin. Which as you probably know is CRITICAL for
That. Never.* Helps. Someone once said to me: “She doesn’t have it as bad as she makes out. A lot of people have it a
“Real dominants don’t ask the opinions of others.” “Real dominants don’t allow questions from their submissive.” “Real dominants don’t accept limits or requirements from anyone.”
So, I was having a conversation. In fact, I’ve had hundreds of similar conversations. But I was having this one conversation about hypnosis with a
Someone commented in an earlier writing: I have found this an eye opening experience in that very few people seem to give a shit about
In fact, none of what I write or discuss online is about convincing you to change your mind. I don’t really care what you think/feel.
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