If I’m not all in, willing to see where it will go, I don’t bother. I won’t waste your time or mine.
Who can give 50% and be happy? Who can get 50% and be happy?
Not I.
Relationships are 100%/100%.
And this is the same for me in nonmonogamy as in anything else. If I’m not willing to explore everything that the relationship could be—whatever that is—I’m not going to even start. That’s not fair to anyone.
I just had a conversation with a friend. He said: Why do newer people in kink think older ways in BDSM are all bad? I
In fact, they are often wildly different. This is true in kink, in nonmonogamy—in anything you might get revved up about. Which, I’m pretty sure
I have a list of things I don’t do. And I pull them out and use them when appropriate. I don’t go offsite with people
In poker, the term “all-in” in poker means that a player has put the last of their chips into the pot. When a player is
It’s a tired old trope: Good relationships require compromise. I call bullshit. Not only that, but I also call hard limit. Do you even KNOW
No, I’ve never thought anyone thought my orgasm was their property. It never crossed my mind. Until I read this piece: My Orgasm Is Not Your
It seems pretty obvious to me, both parties consent, right? And yet, there is this prevailing mindset that all a submissive or bottom has to
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