If you’re serious in your search about connecting with REAL kinky people, then creating a silly, overtly sexual, or bizarre username on dating sites is generally not going to help you and may actually hurt you.
Also, keep an eye out for spelling errors, or anything else that might make it more difficult to connect with you.
For example, here’s one I got a few years back:
AssInAir
This fellow had been looking for a partner for a wile, and couldn’t understand why no one took him seriously.
I asked, “WHO ARE YOU?”
His profile and that username combined to give me only a few clues about him (he liked pegging and being degraded), and none of them information about how he might be as a partner.
And AssInAir didn’t even realize how he was coming across…SMDH!
Note: These 8 Commandments are as true for vanilla (or non-kink) dating profiles as they are for kink, so share them with (tag) ANYONE you think might want to strengthen their dating game. smiles
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