Not only does it save everyone time, but it increases your chances of making a meaningful connection.
Because you can say something ABOUT them in your first message. Which happens so rarely that it will help you stand out right away.
Here’s a blog I wrote about the first message and how to send one that gets more interest: https://datingkinky.com/blog/dating-kinky/online-kinky-dating-the-first-message-part-i/
And this works, whether you’re looking for kink, NSA sex, swinging, non monogamous relationships, or just plain vanilla.
Because it first and foremost treats people like humans.