…since no one ever achieves perfection.
Now, that means real effort, showing results, regardless of how big or small the changes.
It doesn’t count when you simply say, “I’ll try,” then go about your usual way.
But when you put in effort, it shows, and people appreciate it. They know you’ve listened and you care.
And that matters.
Perfection is unreachable, and near perfection can be intimidating.
But effort? That’s gold.
Because there is a difference. A HUGE difference. Of course, you may be BOTH terrible at relationships and someone who sleeps with assholes. But the
Most movies, like most relationships, follow general patterns. And some of those movies are GREAT movies. And some of those relationships are GREAT relationships. I
Someone once posted on one of my writings: “Gender is not a social construct. No one is equal. Actual intersex is a real thing, but
WARNING: This is a long one, and I am very specifically taking a side in this one, then offering my reasoning up for debate and
A friend posted this on Facebook the other day: I’ve posted before that as humans (or cats, LOL!) not judging is impossible. Especially people and
No one can promise that nothing bad will happen, that they won’t ever hurt you (actually they WILL hurt you and you will hurt them,
A couple weeks back, I reposted a writing from several years ago, in which I suggest that the responsibilities of a dominant in a D/s
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