…since no one ever achieves perfection.
Now, that means real effort, showing results, regardless of how big or small the changes.
It doesn’t count when you simply say, “I’ll try,” then go about your usual way.
But when you put in effort, it shows, and people appreciate it. They know you’ve listened and you care.
And that matters.
Perfection is unreachable, and near perfection can be intimidating.
But effort? That’s gold.
There’s a right thing to do when you just aren’t feeling a relationship… …and then there’s what we usually do. The fade away. Online, it
Oh, I feel you. Deeply. In my core. I’m a direct person, and because of the way my brain is put together, I miss a
I was recently walking with a friend who said to me, “I don’t know if I’m poly, really, or just want an open relationship.” My
Oh, sure… I’m sure you expected that old saw, “Anything worth doing is worth doing well.” Duh. Of course it is. One of my mottos
I used to think that dominance and submission were on a continuum: And people fell somewhere along this line:
I read an article a while back that suggested that all career advice for women is a form of gaslighting, because it puts the focus
Consent is key in kink, but I also maintain that it is key in life. And, if you’ve been following me for long, you know
In her Service Basics presentation for Dating Kinky’s Life in Submission (March ’21 — https://datingkinky.com/learning/life-in-submission/ ), UnrulyNerdGirl made the point that as a service submissive, she
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