My first. My Pet’s first.
For his birthday. My gift to him. I’d never had an orgy, much less planned one, but I put my organization skills to the task and pulled it off. Here’s how I did it.
The Players:
Me, W (obviously, LOL!) – Organizer
Pet, M – Guest of Honor/Birthday boy, bi
M1 – Stud friend, Straight-ish
M2 – Geeky friend with big cock, bi
W1 – Friend, sweet, cute, mostly lesbian
W2 – Friend, hot, sexy, dominant, mostly lesbian, somewhat flexible
W3 – Friend, beautiful, bi
W4 – Friend, beautiful, submissive, bi (the girl I’ve played with and dirty talked through mental orgasms)
W5 – Young lady, sweet, beautiful, bi
6 women, all somewhat flexible.
3 men, two flexible, the other flexible-ish.
That was a VERY good combination, and allowed for many different types of play.
The Set-Up:
I emailed everyone, asking for:
- Name (or nickname)/how they want to be introduced.
- What gender do they feel comfortable being approached by, sexually: men/women/both
- Personal limits
- Safety preferences
- STD test results (if they wanted to share)
- Additional notes
I made sure they all got back to me by 15 days before the event. I collected the info, and forwarded it, to introduce everyone, and give them links to our kinky profiles, so they could get to know each other better.
The Day:
Pet and I went to a state park early in the day. I hiked while he bicycled for several hours. We met back and grabbed some lunch, then went to the hotel to shower and nap.
We had two adjoining rooms, a king and two doubles.
We had snacks and drinks for the room.
M1 joined us about an hour before everyone arrived. We sat and chatted for a while, and started some touchy-feely sexy stuff. Very casual, since we knew it would be ON later.
I got everyone together, to go over the rules:
- Don’t touch without asking.
- Mind safety and sexual preferences.
- Have fun!
I had planned to take Pet to heaven at the beginning of the evening, then turn him loose, so that got everything underway. He was the first man to get a BJ and the first to cum. Three of the ladies got started on one of the double beds, and the rest of them were in with us, petting me, or chatting.
From there, my favorite scenes were:
Holding W4 on top of me, arms wrapped around her, dirty talking her, while Pet took her to heaven well over a dozen times with his mouth.
Similar time with W3, me over her, Pet between her legs, me talking dirty to her, as she experienced one of the most intense orgasms of her life (as reported later).
Pet between my legs, eating me, while W3 was sucking him, and W2 was playing with his ass… made him VERY enthusiastic. LOL!
Shared M1’s HUGE cock with W3 while many watched and commented.
Went for about 3 hours, total, before we fell asleep in a puppy pile.
Some of the things I learned:
- I’d invited another W, and she was not sure about joining until the last minute. Communication got mixed up, and she didn’t ever confirm to get the whole process, so I had to turn her away when it happened. I didn’t handle that as well as I could have, and I learned a lesson. I also could not have brought her is, as she’d not been part of the organization.
- I wanted Pet MORE after than before. It didn’t wear me out for him, although I was worn out for others. I craved his energy and desire more after I’d had my fill of others. Was the same for him.
- We both got a bit cranky until we got that one-on-one time together (the next day was a trip to a local large animal rescue with friends and traveling back to town). So, now we know that scheduling is key for such things.
- We both had a great time. Our favorite times were when we were sharing something or someone. There were times when we were apart, doing our own things, but they didn’t rank as high.
- We’d enjoy doing it again, every once in a while—and have. Was a great first time experience for us both. It’s brought us closer, that we can enjoy such things and the pleasure that others bring us, and the pleasure that we can bring others.
- At the end of the day, as always, WE are what’s important and a priority as we create experiences for us together.
A few additional notes for those who might be interested in something like this for themselves or a loved one:
- I chose people I knew, and made sure everything was well-planned and rules of engagement were clear.
- We brought toys and protection and such, so that there was no need for stopping at any point.
- Doing this with strangers (like a gang-bang, which I’ve also helped organize for someone else) is MUCH more difficult. People like to SAY they will do something and then not be able to follow through. Having good friends you are sexy with—or at least having flirty with—is a HUGE bonus to making something like this happen.
- This was Pet’s 3rd year with me. I did not meet him, collar him, and orgy him within a short period of time. This is important to note for those for whom this might be a fantasy.
- Also, for those who might want group play, be WORTHY of group play. Focus on how you please and fill up others. Pet has always been a giver and adored in and out of sexy times. This was a joy for everyone to do for/with him.
Care To Share?
What are your experiences? Have you participated in an orgy? Planned one? Tried to plan one?
I’m certainly no expert. I did think that how I brought mine together might be useful to those who have an interest in maybe trying it themselves, but anything you can add would be wonderful.
I’m also open to questions.
*smiles*
