That’s untrue, actually.
In my view, “No” is one of the BEST things someone can do. Not quite right up there with “Yes” in many situations, but far, far better than many other responses.
What’s worse than a “No”?
- “Yes,” with no follow-through or stringing along.
- “Yes,” with little to no enthusiasm.
- “Maybe,” because they don’t want to say “No.”
- “Yes,” because they are frightened.
- “We’ll see,” then a ghost because they won’t really see.
And so on.
A “No” is solid to me. It’s good. It means we are communicating. It means that they can speak their mind.
If I’m asking a question and I want a yes, I obviously don’t want a no. But I want a no so much more than some of those other options.
What are your thoughts?
Is a “No” the worst reply you can get? One of the best? Something in-between?
