I Don’t _______ (With You).

I have a list of things I don’t do. And I pull them out and use them when appropriate.

I don’t go offsite with people until I’ve met and connected with them.

I don’t have casual sex.

I don’t play outside of my relationships.

I don”t eat in chain restaurants.

And so on.

And these things are true. Well, mostly true. Like 99% true.

I’ve done them.

I do them.

It’s rare, though. And it takes the perfect situation or combination of factors to make them happen.

And if I say these things or something like it to you, it’s not gonna happen.

You pushed too hard, you gave a weird vibe. I’m not interested in being flexible, or doing that kink.

Because I don’t ____. Or, at least I don’t with you.

Boundaries matter. I like to say boundaries are how we tell where we end and others begin. Which as you probably know is CRITICAL for

Quick answer: No. But they often do, and it’s pretty much sort of expected of them. If that’s enough for you, Have a wonderful day

I like to say that in interactions with others, you cannot NOT communicate. And consistency is one of those things that communicate loud and clear.

To be clear, I don’t mean that people can choose what gender they are attracted to. Most people (including much of science) says that is

Dan says:

September 18, 2018 at 7:28 am

Do “enough” with you

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1. admin says:
  
  September 18, 2018 at 9:20 am
  
  Agreed. Damn the distance and responsibilities! *hugs*
  
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