I have a list of things I don’t do. And I pull them out and use them when appropriate.
I don’t go offsite with people until I’ve met and connected with them.
I don’t have casual sex.
I don’t play outside of my relationships.
I don”t eat in chain restaurants.
And so on.
And these things are true. Well, mostly true. Like 99% true.
I’ve done them.
I do them.
It’s rare, though. And it takes the perfect situation or combination of factors to make them happen.
And if I say these things or something like it to you, it’s not gonna happen.
You pushed too hard, you gave a weird vibe. I’m not interested in being flexible, or doing that kink.
Because I don’t ____. Or, at least I don’t with you.