
Behavior Modification: Rewarding bad behavior in relationships…
Ever stopped to wonder how you ended up with these patterns of behavior that seem to be totally negative, and yet, they are so strong?

Ever stopped to wonder how you ended up with these patterns of behavior that seem to be totally negative, and yet, they are so strong?

I get asked if I sit around all day thinking about sex. Yes. I get asked if I get to “research” porn. Yes. I get

So today, as this prompt pops up on my calendar, I’m brought to mind my own missteps over the past year, and how just being

As a collective whole, humans do this a lot. Myself included. And it’s pretty often bullshit. Like this gem I found on social media: UNCOMFORTABLE

Right now, during the pandemic, this holiday has a bittersweet feeling to me. Listen to the podcast: https://podcast.datingkinky.com/e/p8l2pyw8 First, I love that there is a

In 2016, I pissed a metric fuckton of kinksters off with this writing: Why Lying Is Submissive Behavior While people made some good points about

Do you ever feel like you are caught between two different communities when you identify as polyamorous? Are you kinky? Are you poly? Are you
Vulnerability Is… Yesterday, I put up a writing prompt about vulnerability, and said that today I’d post my own view. Vulnerability is opportunity. I’ve been
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