Oda Nobunaga said “Kill it if it does not sing.”
Tokugawa Ieyasu said “Wait until it sings.”
Toyotomi Hideyoshi said “Make it want to sing.”
Make it want to sing.
Pretty powerful stuff.
When you’re having trouble in your relationships, which path do you take?
Do you enter into battle?
Do you avoid the issue, or wait for it to correct itself?
Do you inspire others?
There is this fantasy that many of us have, that we will meet a lover who simply knows what to do and when, as if
I’m sure you’ve heard the saying that the opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference, right? (If not, you’ve heard it now, LOL!) Well,
I ruin your orgasms. Except when I take them for myself with joy. I’m sweet and loving. Except when I’m cranky and snarky. I am
I identify as a dominant in my relationships. I switch in play from top to bottom, and everything in between. I even enjoy the “submissive”
I lie. I have written quite a few pieces about lying, and how it’s really just not acceptable, and people say to me, “But everyone
I recently wrote that not asking for what you want and need is a trauma response in many people. And there were several people who
In my class on protocol, I talk about a conflict resolution protocol I have in place in my relationships.
It’s based on a joke I make about communication:
“I command you to stop being upset!”
Sounds cynical, right? Maybe. I don’t feel like it is, though. We all do whatever we do because we get something from it. The question
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