
The “Community” is Often Toxic
I love my people. Deeply. Passionately. My friends, my partner, my dalliances. I love the communities where I live, too. There are brilliant, strong, amazing


I love my people. Deeply. Passionately. My friends, my partner, my dalliances. I love the communities where I live, too. There are brilliant, strong, amazing

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Because you want it. Need it. Crave it. Not because I am a sadist (I’m not).

It’s a thing. And definitely something that can be a bit surprising. To both. Because I’m not one who gets ALL THAT every time. And
It’s an easy trap to fall into, to focus on the good in everyone. It seems like the right thing to do. See the good

Before I launch into this post, I’d like to state one thing: This is for those people who WANT sex in their relationships. There are

In 2016, I pissed a metric fuckton of kinksters off with this writing: Why Lying Is Submissive Behavior While people made some good points about

I love coconut oil as a personal lubricant. LOVE it. It’s the only lube I keep around at all times. I keep it in a

To some, this is self-evident advice. To others, it feels anathema. For a great majority, it’s just fucking confusing. Especially in kink. Because, well, we
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