And just because I’m a dominant doesn’t mean I will.
We often hear the phrase, “I’m a submissive, but I’m not YOUR submissive,” and applaud the subs for standing up for their rights.
Well, “I’m a dominant, but I’m not YOUR dominant,” is also 100% valid.
I get to CHOOSE who I dominate, who I play with and who gets to call me by a title or who gets a spanking.
I choose who I give my time to, and who I take responsibility for.
In December 2021, Nookie presented the topic “I LOVE ME! Learning ways to gain confidence, to love yourself more, and to feel at home and
I’m in a lot of groups online. Many about ethical nonmonogamy, some about communication. Others about kink or dating or love. I even enjoy a
Paul Watzlawick said that. He is one of my favorite authors. When I was 14, I read his book, “How Real Is Real?” It changed
All women have to do is be on a [dating/sex] site, and men will send her messages. It’s so much easier for women, they make
Until I don’t. For example, I love touching someone as I fall asleep, but I hate being trapped while I’m sleeping. That will just make
I’ve seen a few references to “Fuck me like you hate me” recently, and it had me a bit confused. I looked it up on
In D/s, there is nothing more erotic than belonging. In my opinion, belonging is the highest level of emotion, and it translates into the greatest
So, in a lot of writings here on Fet and elsewhere, I constantly see notes about vetting the people you play with and checking references.
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