I find intelligence sexy

I find intelligence sexy

I really do. I used to identify as a sapiosexual. I don’t, really, anymore, because when it comes right down to it, I don’t think it’s really a specific type of intelligence, but the package of a person, how it meshes with me, AND that they can inspire me and teach me new things.

Inspiring.
Insightful.
Engaged.
Interested.
Interesting (life experiences).
Creative.
Communicative.

Perhaps these come together to create my personal definition for intelligence.

After all, I don’t give any of my partners any sort of IQ test. Nor do I care if they misspell a word or two, or in their grammar is off (after all, I talk to people from other countries regularly, and they usually speak English far better than I speak their language!).

What are your thoughts on intelligence in your connections?

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