Be Safe

As safe as you possibly can, whether you are practicing by yourself, with a fluid-bonded partner, or giving your mad butt pirate skills to everyone at local get-togethers.

Know your safety issues. Choose your level of risk. And don’t be afraid (or unwilling) to stop any play that threatens those limits.

This is YOUR health and your body. If you are giving to your partner, it’s your partner’s health and body, and I’m guessing you want them around for a long time to try new sexy things with and to give you pleasure.

I go over safety concerns thoroughly in multiple places in The Big Book of Ass, and there are a lot of sites on the internet that can provide you research for free.

Please take note. Safety is important.

You may choose to disregard it. I’m not ever going to be one to tell you what you have to do. I will tell you the best practices, and hope you follow most or all of them.

Kink has a term:

RACK
Wikipedia says: 
RACK’s tenets are best described by a deconstruction of the acronym: 
Risk-Aware: both or all partners are well-informed of the risks involved in the proposed activity. 
Consensual: In light of those risks, both or all partners have, of sound mind, offered preliminary consent to engage in said activity. 
Kink: said activity can be classified as alternative sex. 
While “safe, sane and Consensual” (SSC) attempts to describe and differentiate bdsm from abuse in ways that are easy for the non-bdsm public to comprehend, RACK differs from it in that it acknowledges that nothing is ever 100% inherently safe. By acknowledging that what may be safe or sane to one person may not be considered the same to another, the RACK philosophy tends to be more inclusive of activities that others may consider as edgeplay. There is no “safe” or “not safe” within RACK, only “safer” and “less safe.” 

So, consider practicing RACBP—Risk Aware Consensual Butt Play.

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Really, there are plenty of things that can go wrong in plain vanilla PIV (Penis In Vagina) sex. But you take the precautions you and your partner feel most comfortable with, in regards to birth control (where needed), STIs, physical challenges, and so on.

I hope to help you make the best decisions possible alone or with your partner, at the comfort level you feel is best for you.

Let’s Discuss!

Are you familiar with RACK? Or SSC? What about PRICK? Which do you prefer, and why?