Insertion—Instructional Transcript—Couple

By now, you know how to insert something into your partner’s butt. Let me go over a few of the key points:

Lots of lube.

Lube is going to make EVERYTHING more comfortable back there. Use it. More than you think you need, and then add some more again, just to be sure.

Yes, it might leak. If you’re wearing a plug for an extended period. I suggest some absorbent undies. But if you insist on none or silky style, well, then, you’ve been warned.

Patience.

DO NOT RUSH BUTT PLAY.

In case I haven’t been clear enough.

Sure, eventually, you’ll probably be able to pop in and go, because you and your partner have practiced and trained their butt hole. Until then, though, take it slow. Make that butthole beg for it, and you’ll have happy-pleasure-fun times.

Realistic sizing.

Don’t think you’re gonna fit in the King Kong of buttplugs in the first go. Start small and work up. Again, especially for prolonged play. What feels great for 5 minutes might give your receiver horrible cramps after an hour.

Better safe than sorry, and always take the path of caution, until you’re sure.

For the first few tries, choose a plug that is no more than a fraction bigger across than your two fingers (from Lesson 4). You can grow from there.

Now that that is out of the way…

Getting it in.

The Instructional Transcript

Welcome to the Couple’s Instructional experience for Learn To Love Anal: Inserting The Plug, Lesson 7.

This instructional was created for couples to share during the anal training experience, and is intended to teach your giver how to touch your receiver for the most potential pleasure.

Let’s get started!

GIVER:

Have your receiver assume their most comfortable position from the last lesson.

Get well-lubed (of course). Coat the anus, your fingers (you may choose to use them) and the plug itself. If you have some lube in a shooter or frozen and ready to insert, do that.

RECEIVER:

Make sure to give your giver feedback on the amount of lube and how it feels. You want ZERO drag in this stage.

GIVER:

Play with your anus, getting it relaxed and ready for penetration.

RECEIVER:

Relax, and enjoy the pleasure. You’re great at this by now, and your anus should be eager to please and take in the plug.

GIVER:

Use your fingers for insertion, if you wish, or just use the plug itself to play on the outside, dipping in and letting their anus open naturally, as you have in all the previous lessons.

RECEIVER:

Once it feels like the tip is slipping in easily and your anus is ready, be sure to communicate with your giver.

GIVER:

Hold the plug in place, without pushing or moving it, and allow your receiver to settle on it.

RECEIVER:

“Push out,” onto the plug with your anus, like you’re about to take a poo, and wiggle your ass onto the plug.

GIVER:

Let your receiver know when the plug is into the anus at it’s widest point.

RECEIVER:

Stop pushing, and relax.

GIVER:

Let the plug get sucked right in, up to the base—if you have enough lube, and you’ve chosen the right size.

RECEIVER:

There may be a bit of a sharp pinching sensation with the stretch. This is normal when using a plug just a big bigger than you are ready for or from not having QUITE enough lube.

However, hopefully, you will both learn to balance these things, and you will never really have to feel that pain or at least any pain beyond that.

TO YOU BOTH:

And that’s it! You have it in!