Men, don’t even come at me if you can’t compete in THIS dance-off.
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Men, don’t even come at me if you can’t compete in THIS dance-off.
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Team ME: personal accountability and taking responsibility. Team WE: community responsibility for the safety of it’s members. I’m both, for different parts of myself, and

All women have to do is be on a [dating/sex] site, and men will send her messages. It’s so much easier for women, they make

A few years back, I wrote a piece, Trying To Steal My Sub, Cunt?, in which I wish said thief good luck in their efforts.

So, in a lot of writings here on Fet and elsewhere, I constantly see notes about vetting the people you play with and checking references.

Protecting Your Kink Identity, 3-Part Series Chat Transcript: TXTPresentation Deck: PDFA useful link: BDSM Tip Sheet for Beginners Chat Transcript: ZIPPresentation Deck: PDF Chat Transcript:

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! It’s easy to say, “patterns of behavior,” because that’s what it is, in essence, but WHY

It’s amazing to me how many people who really should know better (and do, in other situations) will fall back on this craptaculous non-apology when

Someone said to me in a comment: Showing others not who you are, but whom you wish to be, the idealized version of yourself that
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