
Do you put yourself first?
Maybe it feels a little out-of-character (or a lot out of character) to put yourself first. Especially if you grew up trying to anticipate everyone


Maybe it feels a little out-of-character (or a lot out of character) to put yourself first. Especially if you grew up trying to anticipate everyone

That’s always a question I ask myself before starting a “relationship” conversation, or, if I fail at that, not long after. To me, this is

To me, standards and boundaries go hand-in-hand. Boundaries inform standards of behavior at the very least. And it’s not healthy to lower those. But let’s

It hurts to feel fear. It makes us feel unsafe and vulnerable. It makes us feel powerless. It’s also slows our thoughts down and makes

Would you take a program to be certified in domination? Or submission? Or slavery? Or being a little or a furry, or whatever? What the

Just Thursday, I was contacted by a self-identified male dominant on Collarspace for the first time. His message was short and sweet. I replied. His

I know this guy. I like to refer to him as a dirty old pervert. We met years ago at a local kinky July Fourth

Pretty freaking fantastic, huh? If I were to look back over my life in kink, there were three decisions that would lead to where I
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