Love is our choice.

To be clear, I don’t mean that people can choose what gender they are attracted to.

Most people (including much of science) says that is not so.

I mean that we can choose to show love and compassion to everyone, however love or identify.

Or we can be a bunch of ignorant jizz stains.

At Dating Kinky, we choose love.

In fact, that’s what we’re all about. LOVE.

Well, love and sex and kink and friendship and connection—but love is at the core.

We want to introduce you to amazing people. And we want to give you the tools and understanding to make the most of those connections.

And if you are LGBT, Happy Pride Month to you, and you are welcome at DK.

And if you are straight, Happy Pride Month to you, and you are welcome, too.

And if you are an overflowing skin-sack of spewing pustulant hatred, you are not welcome. Period.

My new book, The Big Book of Ass, has a chapter titled, “Well, they do it in porn, don’t they?” In this chapter, I talk

I recently posted to my FetLife feed with the same question asked to three groups of people: “What’s the most frustrating part of kink and

I’m not sure exactly WHAT tools this refers to, but I’m pretty sure there is fun to be had! smiles

Note: I’ve updated this post to reflect my focus on nonmonogamy as the umbrella term, rather than using polyamory as a catch-all. Not just because

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