Love is our choice.

To be clear, I don’t mean that people can choose what gender they are attracted to.

Most people (including much of science) says that is not so.

I mean that we can choose to show love and compassion to everyone, however love or identify.

Or we can be a bunch of ignorant jizz stains.

At Dating Kinky, we choose love.

In fact, that’s what we’re all about. LOVE.

Well, love and sex and kink and friendship and connection—but love is at the core.

We want to introduce you to amazing people. And we want to give you the tools and understanding to make the most of those connections.

And if you are LGBT, Happy Pride Month to you, and you are welcome at DK.

And if you are straight, Happy Pride Month to you, and you are welcome, too.

And if you are an overflowing skin-sack of spewing pustulant hatred, you are not welcome. Period.

I’m going to share with you a conversation. I’m going to post it without opinion (except as I stated my opinion in the conversation, and

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