How long has it been…?

How long has it been…?

When was the last time you put in effort to show someone you really love and appreciate them?

Like something above and beyond what you would normally do?

I don’t mean things like taking the trash out when that’s usually their chore, or gave them a BJ (even if you don’t do that often).

I mean something 100%, totally frivolous and loving specifically tailored to them.

A couple weeks ago, I woke up to find a note on my laptop:

“Good morning, My Queen…

I wanted to tell you that I appreciate & love you.

You are an amazing woman.

Thank you for rocking my world!”

I still have it next to my computer, where I see it all day, because it makes me feel loved every single time I look at it.

And as I’m typing this, I’m thinking when the last time I did something like that. It’s been a while.

I mean, I do little things a lot. Off the top of my head, over the past two weeks, I’ve:

  • Restocked the chocolate bars he likes to nibble for a sweet after dinner (and I’ll do that again today).
  • Made him a breakfast strata from some amazing focaccia that was getting stale (as opposed to yogurt and granola, hard boiled eggs, or oatmeal, which is what he usually has).
  • Told him I love him every day.
  • Cheered him on while he played with others.

There’s more.

I do try to show my love every day in multiple ways.

But I don’t remember when I did something different. That stands out and gives him something to remember.

And to me, those things matter, too.

Daily life SHOULD be amazing and wonderful.

And in my world, adding that little extra effort to show someone you really love and appreciate them matters.
I’m going to think about what I can do. smiles

What are your thoughts?

Do you value the extra effort?

When was the last time you put in that extra effort? What did you do?

Or, when was the last time someone did that for you? What did they do? How does it make you feel to remember that?

More Posts

Change Colors with Color Picker

Adjust color, saturation, hue, and transparency quickly and easily. Take advantage of the uniquely powerful Gantry 5 Color Picker and change your theme’s color scheme

Image of a happily maybe orgasmic woman with the words: "When you get a taste of a real dominant, the rest of the world never really tastes the same. And: "Do 'real' dominants taste different from other humans? Huh. *licks self* I can't tell."

Real Dominants Don’t… He Said To Me

“Real dominants don’t ask the opinions of others.” “Real dominants don’t allow questions from their submissive.” “Real dominants don’t accept limits or requirements from anyone.”

Paying attention and intention.

In December of 2021, I presented the topic ‘That Feels Good! Sensual Touch’ for Dating Kinky’s 12 Days of Kinkmas. The original presentation was free

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

X