Q. What’s the difference between a man’s orgasm and a woman’s orgasm?
A. Scientists don’t question whether male orgasms exist.
*laughs, then… sighs*
Look, people, female pleasure has been around as long as male pleasure, and all of this confusion about how it works hurts EVERYONE.
If orgasm doesn’t exist outside of ejaculation, then women get the short end if they don’t squirt, and men never get to learn to experience multiples.
AND… what’s in it for those women who enjoy sex with men, if their pleasure is not a priority?
It’s sad.
To brighten it up, though, I found this fun little documentary on the clitoris that I wanted to share with you. It’s French, and subtitled, which somehow makes it even cuter to me, and the whimsical animation makes me smile.
Let’s talk a bit about compliment lures. When compliments are sincere and don’t come with strings attached, I love them. Not necessarily because I’m looking
This installment of the Saturday It’s Not Cheating marathon consisted of a conversation between Meg-John Barker and Nookie about the concept and application of amatonormativity
Chat Transcript: ZIPPresentation Deck: PDF A monthly discussion about the right side of the (consensual) slash: submission, slavery, property and more. What does submitting mean
Q. What Is The Difference Between A Garbanzo Bean And A Chickpea?
Q. What Is The Difference Between A Garbanzo Bean And A Chickpea?
A. I’ve never had a garbanzo bean on my face!
*guffaw*
Ok, ok, I’ve got another.
Q. What’s the difference between a man’s orgasm and a woman’s orgasm?
A. Scientists don’t question whether male orgasms exist.
*laughs, then… sighs*
Look, people, female pleasure has been around as long as male pleasure, and all of this confusion about how it works hurts EVERYONE.
If orgasm doesn’t exist outside of ejaculation, then women get the short end if they don’t squirt, and men never get to learn to experience multiples.
AND… what’s in it for those women who enjoy sex with men, if their pleasure is not a priority?
It’s sad.
To brighten it up, though, I found this fun little documentary on the clitoris that I wanted to share with you. It’s French, and subtitled, which somehow makes it even cuter to me, and the whimsical animation makes me smile.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7n05aG61G8
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