Q. What’s the difference between a man’s orgasm and a woman’s orgasm?
A. Scientists don’t question whether male orgasms exist.
*laughs, then… sighs*
Look, people, female pleasure has been around as long as male pleasure, and all of this confusion about how it works hurts EVERYONE.
If orgasm doesn’t exist outside of ejaculation, then women get the short end if they don’t squirt, and men never get to learn to experience multiples.
AND… what’s in it for those women who enjoy sex with men, if their pleasure is not a priority?
It’s sad.
To brighten it up, though, I found this fun little documentary on the clitoris that I wanted to share with you. It’s French, and subtitled, which somehow makes it even cuter to me, and the whimsical animation makes me smile.
Q. What Is The Difference Between A Garbanzo Bean And A Chickpea?
Q. What Is The Difference Between A Garbanzo Bean And A Chickpea?
A. I’ve never had a garbanzo bean on my face!
*guffaw*
Ok, ok, I’ve got another.
Q. What’s the difference between a man’s orgasm and a woman’s orgasm?
A. Scientists don’t question whether male orgasms exist.
*laughs, then… sighs*
Look, people, female pleasure has been around as long as male pleasure, and all of this confusion about how it works hurts EVERYONE.
If orgasm doesn’t exist outside of ejaculation, then women get the short end if they don’t squirt, and men never get to learn to experience multiples.
AND… what’s in it for those women who enjoy sex with men, if their pleasure is not a priority?
It’s sad.
To brighten it up, though, I found this fun little documentary on the clitoris that I wanted to share with you. It’s French, and subtitled, which somehow makes it even cuter to me, and the whimsical animation makes me smile.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L7n05aG61G8
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