Seriously. You gotta love you more than you love that good dick, or more than that WAP.
Because YOU are the only person you’re going to have to live with your whole life. And because if you abuse yourself (using someone else as your tool), you are the one that hurts.
Of course, this is true of all addictions and self-destructive behaviors, yes? That the temporary pleasure outweighs the rest of life and the better decisions.
Now, I’m not saying not to have your fun.
Only you can know when it’s not just fun, though. When you’re opening yourself up to more trouble and pain than you need.
When you are loving whatever the bright shiny is that they offer more than you are loving your self-respect.