Offer A Hug: Be The Change You Want To See In The World

This morning as I was poking around on my twitter, I stumbled across this tweet thread:

This is a thing. I personally grew up with a very physically affectionate mother, and touch is natural to me.

As natural as breathing.

When I meet people, I always offer a hug, instead of a handshake or basic greeting. Even in business.

Let me clear: I don’t dive in for the embrace. I give them the OPTION.

90%+ take it.

Now, as a woman, I do have an advantage of not seeming creepy to most. However, I know men who offer a hug, too.

“I’m a hugger. Do you prefer hugs or another greeting?”

Of course, not ever expecting to sexualize it helps.

BE THE CHANGE.

YMMV. Perhaps start small.

Friends.

“I’m on a mission to hug more and spread joy. You with me?”

I know it will not work for everyone with every person. When it does, though, we all benefit.

Is that even a valid question? Is there really a difference between intimacy and long-term? To me, there is a difference, and there is no

For some people in my life, it takes a while for them to really become a fixture. Like, they grow into my life, and I

I will not battle for our relationship.I will not struggle for what I need.I will not duel for your attention.I will not skirmish for loving

In January, I offered up the debate about which gender has the power, and Grafinya said: “dick is cheap” And she’s right. It is. Now

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