Bullshit.
Love means doing everything in your power to not have to say it, but saying it immediately and sincerely when it’s called for, because you are not an asshole.
Bullshit.
Love means doing everything in your power to not have to say it, but saying it immediately and sincerely when it’s called for, because you are not an asshole.

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I know that people mean it as a compliment. It’s not. It’s also not a very good conversation starter. Some people even take it negatively.

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