Bullshit.
Love means doing everything in your power to not have to say it, but saying it immediately and sincerely when it’s called for, because you are not an asshole.
Bullshit.
Love means doing everything in your power to not have to say it, but saying it immediately and sincerely when it’s called for, because you are not an asshole.
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