Bullshit.
Love means doing everything in your power to not have to say it, but saying it immediately and sincerely when it’s called for, because you are not an asshole.
Bullshit.
Love means doing everything in your power to not have to say it, but saying it immediately and sincerely when it’s called for, because you are not an asshole.

For me it wasn’t disinterest. It was an active and systematic (although possibly not intentional) verbal dismantling of my hopes and dreams by someone who

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Behavior modification, that is. It’s not like handcuffs or chains, where you do something once, and

I do! I do! I mean, I don’t speak for ALL kinksters. And I would not pretend to. In fact, that’s a challenge, is that

I grew up with swinksters (70s and 80s), and the groups of friends they had were incredibly varied in gender, race, age (college towns), and

Let me be clear, I’ve agreed with this in my past. Hell, I’ve even said it, smugly, and defended it. But the last few years,

If all is going well today, I’m in Santa Cruz. My partner will be mountain biking today, and I will be wandering about and exploring,

The word of the week is “breath”. To participate, create a 15-word story with breath, breathe, breaths, breathes, breathed, or breathing. I can’t wait to

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! Last week, a friend and I were talking about the frustration of someone saying in an
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