What Do I Need To Know About Fingering Asses?

Always start with your finger on the outside of the body.

Tease the anus.

Use lots of lube, and rather than “poking,” slide the pad of your finger across the anus over and over, in circles or back and forth (I call this “knocking at the door”).

Once you’ve done this for a while, the anus will begin to suck at your finger a bit, inviting you in.

This is when it’s time to penetrate. But, before you do that…

Ask and have them say they are ready

ASK!

Ask, “Are you ready? Would you like me inside you?” or something similar.

When your receiver says “yes” (and only when they say, “yes”), slide your very well-lubed finger inside.

Once you’ve slid in, pause, and give your receiver time to relax around you.

Then slowly move your finger around and slowly pull back and then slowly push back into your receiver’s asshole. Continue to do this going faster and deeper each time, making sure to keep up the communication.

Talk to your receiver, and ask them if they like it. Make your receiver tell you what they like.

Ask your receiver if they are ready for another finger. If you like, and they like, make them beg for it (It’s fun!)

Then go to two fingers. Then three fingers, if your receiver can take it. They might not be able to on their first time, AND THAT’S OK.

New things take time to get good at.

Let’s Discuss!

Fingering is STILL one of my favorite ways to pleasure an ass—giving or receiving! What’s your experience with fingering?