Give yourself a good cleansing. Or, give a good cleansing to your bottom.
This can be as simple as a soapy finger in the shower, or as elaborate as a full enema.
For your first time, you may prefer to take care of this separately and privately, or you may want to go all out and share the experience as a sort of foreplay and exploration.
Whatever you decide, get yourself clean to whatever standards you and your partner agree on.
In my book, Understand Me Now—And That’s An Order! I talk about how to be a safe space to encourage your partners to open up
My ex-husband and I made a lot of mistakes. His BPD and alcoholism in the last 7 years created even more mistakes in an already
I’ve been writing. And editing. A lot. Not as much as I should be. In fact, this COVID things has had me in a bit
CW: How I have learned more about racism through my experience of language as a white child and as a woman. — When I was
He was beautiful. Strong. Charismatic. Sexy as fuck. Had been from the moment I met him. I was me. He’d never told me I was
Overwhelmingly, I hear it from all sorts of people who want a relationship to last, regardless of how happy or fulfilled they or the other
And you know what else? It’s encouraged by many. Comments like, “This is a polyamory group, not a polyfuckery group,” or “Yeah, it sounds like
In honor of this month, I’d like to share a story. It’s one I tell often, because it was the first time I remember realizing
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