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In her Service Basics presentation for Dating Kinky’s Life in Submission (March ’21 — https://datingkinky.com/learning/life-in-submission/ ), UnrulyNerdGirl made the point that as a service submissive, she

In her Service Basics presentation for Dating Kinky’s Life in Submission (March ’21 — https://datingkinky.com/learning/life-in-submission/ ), UnrulyNerdGirl made the point that as a service submissive, she
And I was right about my experiences. I’ll explain. Almost exactly three years ago, I wrote Why I Think “Empathy” Is An Often Misused And

This writing is now available as a podcast episode! This is a question that comes up a lot. In my general Kinky Q&A classes, online

It’s built in. On purpose. No matter your role, you are equal to another until you negotiate and consent. It’s a fundamental idea of contemporary


Last week, I wrote about the idea I have that great dominants make people feel like they could be (or are already) great. Two comments

That was the response I got the first time I told my partner that my primary love languages were gifts and quality time. His were

Someone in one of my Facebook groups called me “Goddess” yesterday. I HATE that term, and the rule in my groups is that you call
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