Don’t Believe Everything You Think

A friend posted this on Facebook the other day:

I’ve posted before that as humans (or cats, LOL!) not judging is impossible. Especially people and cultures and things we are not familiar with.

And frankly, even as a human who self-describes as an “experience whore,” there are SOOOOOOOO many things I’m not familiar with.

SOOOOOOOO many.

Which is why, every once in a while, I want to remind everyone: don’t believe what you think.

Don’t take it as gospel.

Examine your own thoughts with as much rigor and logic and open-mindedness as you might examine mine. Or “fake news.”

Don’t let the first thing you think be the only thing you think about anything.

It MAY end up being the last thing you think, sure.

But if it’s the ONLY thing you think, you may just miss out on amazing people and experiences and foods and kinks and stuff in your like.

Sometimes when someone says I hurt them, I fall back on my brain to save me instead of my heart. I have picked apart their

After some random dude sent me a clear list in his second message to me of the types of lovers I’d be expected to take

In my mentoring piece a few days back, a conversation on FetLife went THERE. To the “can sex be traded for mentoring” place. And I,

Yes, you’ll get in arguments. With everyone, eventually. Yes, people will insult you, say the wrong thing, hurt you. None of these things are fun.

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